My ex gave me an alimony check that was returned. It was a mistake, his, not the bank's. He didn't do it on purpose. However, several things in my acct bounced (he took care of that, too) and I got stressed.
I told Mike, "I don't want to do this with money anymore. I don't care who's fault it is, I just don't want it to happen." Money and I have had an antagonistic relationship for far too long and I'm trying to make friends now. It's resisting. I'm determined.
I believe everything is fixed now and going to be okay again. I'll just keep working on it.
My new motto is "tenacious, tenacity, tenaciousness".